Monday 21 May 2012

Never-Ending phone calls: A necessary EVIL ??

You met a girl whom you like. She likes you too. You ask her out and BANG, you're in a relationship.

It seems too short but soon the honeymoon period ends and believe it or not, ur a normal couple just like the others. This is not the hard part but yeah, it's not easy too. The most difficult part and also, the crux of this post, is the painstakingly long and torturous phone calls you share with the love of your "current" life.

I never seem to understand the fact how the couples talk n talk n talk for hours at a time ... I've seen my pals glued to their phones and repeatedly calling the person at the other end of the line, "JAANU" or "BABY" (Pyaar ka Punchnaama Flashback anyone?) and talking till the wee hours of the morning. Not only the phone calls are long, boring and unyielding, the lengthy e-mails and text messages are intolerable too. A lot of girls can relate to Rachel writing the 27 page long letter to Ross about how she feels. 27 PAGES ...

FRONT AND BACK.

I remember the phone calls, where my replies were confined to the occasional "so" or "really" or "ok" while she would go on and on, the emails that could easily make up a chapter of the Lord of the Rings novel (which is super lengthy btw) to which I used to reply with a one or max two paragraph response, with don't know how many line breaks. I almost landed into trouble when my folks got the page-long (ironic huh) phone bills on every single phone I dialed her number from.

I bet, if I had the phone made of the two cans a string, they would deliver a hefty phone bill at my home. So really, why do girls always have to "express" themselves in so many words ?? Or should I be furious at the English language, where there are endless words to explain how they feel. I don't mean guys don't say what they feel, we just choose the shortest, the most precise and the fastest route. Ever seen a heterosexual guy who writes long letters and make those phone calls and actually talk most of the time? (and is not a stalker of course). If these creatures exist, please, enlighten me !!

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6 comments:

  1. Hey, you've got a strong view point there.. You've "expressed" yourself well. I bet this was 'the shortest, the most precise and the fastest route' to do so.

    Good job! :D

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  2. Haha !! So this is what you meant by an "Interesting" comment. You have no idea how much time I took to type these many words !! I bet, a similiar post from ur side will be 10 times more lengthy

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  3. Haha, well, all I'm trying to prove is, guys DO and CAN express themselves, ONLY if they want to :)

    But yeah, it takes a lot for a guy to actually feel something for a girl, to give her all the time she wants. I've seen guys in love do that, that too without complaining.

    You, on the other hand, still haven't met a girl who would make you do such things, without you even realizing what you're doing for her. Trust me, you'd be writing another post about what girls do to you, one day.



    Okay. Too much? :P

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  4. What girls DO TO ME ?? I'd rather keep it to myself ?? Haha ... Will surely keep you in the loop ;)

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  5. Is it just you, or all the boys have such a filthy mind?
    And dude. NO THANKS. :/ :P

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